a lilttle advice for the girls..

We guys don’t care if you talk to other guys.
We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys.
But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it makes us mad
It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.
We don’t care if a guy calls>OR TEXTS
We’ll stop trying to convince you.

The best thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don’t be mad when we hold the door open.

Take Advantage of the mood im in.

Let us pay for you!
don’t ‘feel bad’
We enjoy doing it.
It’s expected.

Smile and say ‘thank you.

Kiss us when no one’s watching.
If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.

You don’t have to get dressed up for us.
If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to
wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for who you are and not what you are.
Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s.
or my t shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.
Don’t take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don’t get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don’t talk about how hot Chris Brown,
Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.
It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word ‘handsome’/'beautiful’
I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me
with ‘Hey handsome!’ instead of ‘Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy’ or whatever else you can think of.

On the other hand I’m not saying i wouldn’t like it ether ; )
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change!!!!!

Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population
and find someone who will treat you with utter respect
Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they’re doing just to look you in the eyes….and say ‘i love you’ ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance.

ADVICE:

*Holding Hands
Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of
times.

*Movies
Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other
Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her
too… And mean it.

*Laying below the stars
Girls: When you’re both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.

ramblings of a madman

A wise friend of mine whom I really respect once told me something.. you don’t know what you’ve got till you’ve lost it.. and no I’m not referring to a lover you had in the past.. but someone with a more deeper and intimate relationship with you.. the loss of a loved you perhaps.. frankly speaking those very lines are true.. from personal experience i never really thought much of that statement until the day i lost someone very dear to me.. my grandfather.. well initially i couldn’t have really been bothered so i thought.. but it turns out i was wrong.. he sudden demise affected me greatly.. they day i got the news i broke down immediately.. i was so devastated that i couldn’t even bring my self to attend my last 3 classes for the day.. the way i reacted came as a total shock to me for before this i never really gave a damn about him.. in fact i actually hated him(things that happened in my childhood that i shall not elaborate on about) but now when i look back at what has happened i realised i wouldn’t be half the person i am today because of him..

a couple of months back before it happened i made a solemn promise to him that i will not repeat the things he has done.. initially i procrastinated in changing my way’s but after his demise i decided that i couldn’t delay any longer and so hence that day i have changed.. I’ve reduced my smoking and completely stopped drinking.. i started saying thing that were daggers to my friends but it was the truth nonetheless.. its may have hurt them and if they did I’m sorry.. but i couldn’t bear living a lie anymore.. when i was confronted by one of my batch mates i told him everything that was going on and that had past.. i was surprised he understood how i felt but than again he has more experience in life than me.. that night we just talked at i realised my mistake.. something in order to protect the ones you love and care about you need to lie.. be it a small lie.. we talked about many things but the one thing he said to me that night in which i really agree and understand is this.. You will never be successful until you learn to appreciate you parents.. i agree with this as many of you would.. but than let me pose to you a question.. do you really understand this statement?? i highly doubt so.. for me to fully understand this statement i looked back at my 19 years of life.. all my trails and tribulations.. i reflected the whole night thinking about those words.. and i finally came to understand what it really meant.. it was something terrifying yet truly beautiful.. i wont spoil it for you by telling you what it mean.. i’ll let you ponder on about it.. as the day’s progressed i learnt how to truly appreciate my parents.. 3months later when i made a phone call to my mum she noticed something different about me.. just trough that short little phone call.. though not many people have realised it but i am a totally different person now than before.. though i have made a few enemies during my transformation.. i realised something.. i cant just go around changing myself to suite everyone.. so i decide to stick to what ever i have become be it good or bad.. people come and go but the ones who truly remain steadfast by your side are just a handful.. your parents and family members are the only people that will always be there for you.. no one can ever replace them.. no one not even your lover even thought you share a special bond with him/her your family primarily your parents are the ones who will always be there for you.. so don’t ever try to replace them for you will have entered a new world beyond your understanding.. a world full of despair and pain..

new bling for my car!!!

ok well.. i’ve got new extractors/headers for my car.. chrome plated 4-2-1.. well there is an increase of power and acceleration.. but it’s still not enough.. i think i’m gonna fix a bullet and a muffler next month.. we’ll see how things goes.. haha..

On the way back

Ok.. on the way home yesterday i had a blast driving.. i had the best luck in the world.. 1stly i took the wrong highway twice!! wasted 50km worth of fuel and 4 bucks on toll.. was supposed to convoy with ee jun but couldnt make it in the end.. after that on the seremban highway i was caught in a very heavy rain.. luckily it only lasted about 15 mins..after that it was smooth driving all the way back weaving trough trafic trying to catch up with ee jun but it turns out i was 15 mins behind.. damn..

About the Author

I’ve never done this before so i don’t really know what to write.. so here’s a brief portfolio of me..

My name is Adrian or Choo as people in my accademy would call me.. i’m 19 this year, love’s cars, planes anything mechanical basically.. generally i am a nice person but at time i can be a real ass.. very straight forward and can easily hurt people around me without knowing it.. not easily offended by pety things but if i do get offended well i’d just say i’m sorry about what will happen to you.. i have a few bad habits which i’m not very proud of butstill a habit all the same.. i smoke,drink and have the tendency to be very reckless when driving.. but if there are passengers in my car than thats a differant story.. my aspiration is to be a pilot or a semi-pro racer.. i love rock climbing(outdoors on natural rocks) and archery.. i may look fat and useless but all i’ve got to say see me on the wall.. than we’ll see who really is useless….cocky at times yet am down to earth.. i may only be 19 but i’ve done things that most people my age have never done.. I’m not proud of it but i learn from experience